Can You Wear Pants To A Wedding?: Do’s and Don’ts

Today, we’re going to be answering the question: can you wear pants to a wedding? And taking a look at other do’s and don’ts when choosing the perfect wedding guest outfit. When you receive an invite to a wedding, one of the first decisions you want to make is what you’ll be wearing. And if there’s no dress code, it’s tricky to even know where to begin! Let’s take a look at whether wedding etiquette says it’s okay to wear pants to a wedding – and other do’s and don’ts to follow when choosing your outfit.

Do’s and Don’ts of Outfits at Weddings

There are a few do’s and don’ts to follow when choosing your outfit to ensure you choose the perfect attire for the occasion. Here are a few of our top tips to follow.

Do’s

  • Do think about the dress code. If there’s a dress code for the wedding, this is the easiest way to choose an outfit. And it’s considered rude to not follow the dress code if there is one
  • Do consider the venue choice. If the venue is a barn, it’s probably not best to turn up in a floor-length gown with 5-inch stilettos – plan your outfit around the location of the wedding
  • Do check the weather. It may be a summer wedding, but you can’t predict the weather, so be sure to check your local weather station, and have a backup outfit ready, just in case
  • Do wear layers. Weather can change at the drop of a hat. Too hot? Too cold? Be sure to bring a jacket or shrug.
  • Do wear comfortable shoes. I know it’s tempting to adorn your highest heels and strut your stuff, but you’ll likely be in the shoes for the majority of the day, and you don’t want to be suffering.

Don’ts

  • Don’t wear white. It seems like an obvious one but wearing white is completely unacceptable and should only be worn if the dress code allows it.
  • Don’t wear the same color as the bridal party/groomsmen. If you’re unsure of what the color scheme is, check in with the couple before choosing your outfit.
  • Don’t wear jeans. I know you want to be comfortable and jeans may feel like a great choice – jeans are far too casual, even for a casual wedding.
  • Don’t wear all black. Black pants are okay, but avoid wearing all black. It’s a wedding, not a funeral, after all.
  • Don’t wear anything too revealing. You don’t want to be remembered for the wrong reasons when choosing your outfit. Avoid anything with a low cleavage or anything that shows too much leg.
  • Don’t wear anything too bold. Avoid wearing anything with too much glitz and glam. You don’t want any attention to be taken away from the bride.
  • Don’t wear a black tuxedo. It’s also important not to upstage the groom too. Avoid wearing anything too groom-like. You also don’t want to be mistaken for the groom, or one of the groomsmen.

If you’re wondering what the perfect outfit looks like, check out this article from the Evening Standard of the 50 Guest Stunning Wedding Guest Dresses. This is perfect for some inspiration and the best places to shop for your outfit.

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped to answer the question: can you wear pants to a wedding? And helped to identify the other do’s and don’ts when it comes to choosing the perfect wedding outfit. The most important thing to remember is to choose a comfortable outfit that fits the dress code. As long as you’re following the dress code and wearing something comfortable – you can’t go wrong!

Have you worn pants to a wedding? If so, which ones did you go for? I would love to know, so please feel free to let me know in the comments below. Sharing is caring!

FAQs

What Should You Never Wear to a Wedding?

The main rule to follow when choosing your outfit (as a female guest) is to never wear the color white, unless the dress code allows you to. White should be the bride's color from her engagement, all the way through to her wedding day, if that's what she chooses. And it's seen as terrible wedding etiquette and unlucky for the bride to wear white to her wedding. Another no-go when it comes to choosing your outfit is dressing outside the dress code. It's tempting to not follow the dress code, particularly if it's not your color or style - but it's always best to respect the couple's wishes, and decisions for their wedding.

Is It Acceptable to Wear Trousers at a Wedding?

Absolutely! As a guest, as long as you're not wearing anything too casual, and trousers that don't look too much like office wear - it's completely fine to wear trousers to a wedding. However, it is best to stick to dress pants, and a wide leg trouser if you're choosing to wear trousers. If you're unsure whether the couple would be happy with you wearing trousers to the wedding, just ask! That way, you won't need to worry about your outfit choice.

Can You Wear Pants to a Casual Wedding?

Casual weddings are tricky, as how casual is too casual? It can be a real minefield to navigate. But you can definitely wear pants to a casual wedding. Tailored, wide-leg trousers and pastel colors are the best choices to opt for when choosing your pants. And remember not to choose pants that are too casual - sweatpants are definitely not acceptable! 

Is It Okay For a Woman to Wear Black Pants to a Wedding?

Black pants are completely okay to wear to a wedding - although opt for tailored or wide-leg if you can. And definitely do not pair with a black top. Be sure to add colorful accessories, or a bright top. Some couples will not be happy to see guests wearing all black on their wedding day. But black pants, paired with another color is absolutely fine. Again, if you're unsure - be sure to ask the couple.

The Best Old New Borrowed Blue Gift Ideas

Today, we’re going to be looking at the best old new borrowed blue gift ideas. No matter how familiar you are with weddings and the traditions that go hand in hand with marriage, you’ll no doubt know of something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue. Even today, it’s still one of the most common traditions that brides follow on their wedding day. My wedding day wasn’t very traditional, but it was something even I did!

If you’re a bride and struggling with ideas yourself, or you’re looking for something to gift a bride for one of the old, new, borrowed or blue parts of the tradition – look no further! But first, let’s take a look at some examples, and where the tradition began.

Old New Borrowed Blue Gift Ideas

If you’re looking for gift ideas, you’ve come to the right place! Online sites like Amazon and Etsy are perfect for finding perfect gifts that you can order last minute. Let’s take a look at our favorite for each category.

Something Old

The Bride’s Sixpence Coin and Card is the perfect affordable gift that will cover the “silver sixpence for her shoe” part of the tradition, and the “something old”. It comes beautifully presented in a card for just $6.95 and will be something small that the bride can treasure after the wedding. The coin itself will be over 50 years old, making it the perfect gift for “something old”. The silver sixpence is said to symbolize love, wealth, happiness, and health on a wedding day – so it’s also a very thoughtful gift too.

Something New

If the bride is somewhat of a bookworm or feeling particularly anxious about her upcoming wedding, the book “Something New: Tales from a Makeshift Bride” by Lucy Knisley is a perfect idea. It’s currently $11.87, making it very affordable – and also a truly unique gift too. You may want to gift this graphic memoir prior to the big day, as it’s said to have some brilliant ideas and provides a great deal of comfort when planning your wedding.

Something Borrowed

With something borrowed, it’s better to borrow something from a close friend or family member. Whether that be the dress or something smaller like a piece of jewelry or a handbag. However, if you’re really struggling and are unsure whether someone will let you borrow something for your wedding, there’s an amazing film that was released in 2011 called Something Borrowed. While it’s slightly cheating…it’s the perfect way around it!

Something Blue

Something blue is certainly the easiest one to gift. I was lucky as blue was the color scheme for my wedding, so was very easy to slip into the wedding! However, if your color scheme isn’t blue, you don’t really want to be wearing or holding something that doesn’t match your wedding – I have the perfect alternative! This gorgeous Something Blue for Bride anklet from Amazon is $32.99, and something she can wear throughout her wedding (and afterwards too!). It’s customizable in gold or silver, to match the bride’s tastes and comes in a beautiful presentation box. The anklet itself is stunning and comes very highly recommended!

Conclusion

I hope this article has given you inspiration for the best old new borrowed blue gift ideas. When buying the gifts, consider the bride’s interests and it’s always lovely to gift something they can use or wear later in life. My mother gifted me a pearl necklace for my “something new”, and it’s something I still wear regularly and look at with fond memories.

But just remember, you don’t have to follow any traditions at your wedding if it’s something you’re not comfortable doing – just be sure your wedding is 100% authentically you and your partner.

Do you have any other ideas for something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue? I would love to hear any suggestions you have, or what you used for your own wedding. If you’re comfortable sharing, please let me know in the comments below. Sharing is caring!

FAQs

What are Examples of Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue?

There is no set guide to follow for this tradition, it really can be absolutely anything! For example, your something old could be a vintage car that takes you to the ceremony, an old bible if you're religious or a family heirloom. Your something new could be your new name (little effort needed for this one!), a new perfume or a new piece of jewellery. Your something borrowed could be your dress (if it's a dress that has been passed down for generations), a handbag, or a piece of jewellery. Your something blue could be your garter, your bouquet or even your dressing robe as you're getting ready.

What Do You Get From Old New Borrowed Blue?

There are no rules you need to follow when planning the gifts, and they can even be aspects that are already incorporated into your wedding (such as the car and the bouquet), that way the cost of following the tradition is much lower. If you're looking to gift the bride and are unsure what to get, they'll be plenty of ideas within this article. 

Why Do You Need Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed and Something Blue?

It's a tradition that's been around for a while and each item is said to represent something important in your new marriage. Something new shows optimism and hope for the future. Something borrowed shows borrowed happiness. Something old shows continuity and growth together. Something blue shows love and purity. 

Do You Have to Wear Something Old New Borrowed Blue?

Absolutely not! You can pick and choose which traditions you have at your wedding. What's important to remember is that it's yours and your partner's day. You do whatever makes you both happy. While some brides believe it's bad luck not to follow this tradition, if you don't feel the same - it's totally fine to skip it! Don't feel under any pressure to compromise on anything on your special day. 

Getting Engaged Without A Ring: Is It Okay?

Today, we’re going to be looking at getting engaged without a ring and whether it’s okay or not. Wedding traditions are constantly evolving and changing. Whether it be having a man of honor, walking down the aisle alone, or wearing a dress that isn’t white, there aren’t many weddings nowadays that follow every tradition. So let’s start with changing a tradition from the engagement – do we really need a ring to show off our engagement? Let’s take a look.

Why Do We Propose With A Ring?

Did you know that the tradition of engagement rings goes back to Ancient Egyptian times?! We’re led to believe that they saw circles as a symbol of eternity – so what better way to use a circle for our engagement rings and our wedding bands? It’s quite a romantic gesture really!

Ways To Propose Without A Ring

There are plenty of just as romantic ways to propose without a ring. Let’s take a look at some of our favorites.

  • In Writing. We just spoke about the power of words. A love letter declaring how you feel, and how you wish to spend the rest of your life with your partner is the perfect gesture for a proposal. And something they can treasure forever
  • A Pet. Getting a pet together is a huge commitment, much like a marriage. So why not ask your partner to get engaged with a pet? It’s the perfect way to show your commitment to your relationship, and the next step in the new chapter of your lives
  • An Heirloom. While not every family has an heirloom, if yours does, what better way to propose than with such an important part of your family’s legacy? Your partner will see that you already think of them as part of your family, which is incredibly important
  • On Vacation. While you’re sunbathing on the beach, get down on one knee in the sand and simply tell them how you feel and ask them to spend the rest of their life with you. It’s romantic and extremely memorable
  • Get Creative. Are you an artist? Do you like to write music? Use your creative skills to create something unique for your significant other like a painting or a song, and then gift them it while you’re proposing. It will always be a beautiful memento of your engagement

Can A Woman Propose?

While we’re talking about knocking off traditions – why should it be the man that always has to propose?! Nowadays, it’s becoming far more common for women to propose than it once was. If you’re a woman and want to propose to your partner – there is absolutely nothing stopping you! If you’re wondering how to propose and the best ways to do it, check out this super informative article from The Knot.

While I didn’t propose to my husband, he did want an engagement ring like me once he had proposed – and I was more than happy to oblige!

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped to answer the question of whether getting engaged without a ring is okay. In short, it most definitely is! But it’s something I suggest chatting about to your significant other first. What’s important to you, may not be important to them and vice versa. Communication is key to every part of a relationship, including engagement.

Did you get engaged without a ring? If so, what did you receive? I would love to hear your experiences and stories. If you have one you’d like to share, please feel free to let me know in the comments below. Sharing is caring!

FAQs

Is it Okay to Propose Without a Ring?

Although we've all grown up believing a proposal must go hand in hand with a sparkling diamond ring - this is absolutely not the case! It's perfectly okay to propose without a ring. You may be proposing to someone that doesn't often wear jewellery, or doesn't like to wear rings. Or maybe just thinks the engagement ring tradition is outdated. Whatever the reason, it's best to discuss if a ring is important to your significant other when discussing marriage - just because it's not a deal breaker for you, it may be for them. 

What Can I Do Instead of an Engagement Ring?

There are plenty of ways to propose instead of using an engagement ring. The most common way is to buy a piece of jewellery more suited to your significant other. They may prefer necklaces, bracelets, anklets - whatever their preference, another piece of jewellery is a great idea. Another popular replacement is a simple ring box. If you know your partner is particular fussy, or you want to propose but are saving for the perfect ring, the gesture of a ring box can be enough - and you can shop for the ring as a couple.

Why Would a Man Propose Without a Ring?

The most common reason is financial issues. The cost of an engagement ring could be a huge help to your wedding planning budget. Some couples may prefer to spend the money on the wedding itself, than a ring. Another reason is that your partner may know you don't wear jewellery and may feel a proposal is better suited to your preferences, with something like a letter or flowers - we'll be looking at ways to propose without a ring later in this article! 

How Do You Show Commitment Without a Ring?

Commitment can be shown with objects like an engagement ring, but more importantly - commitment is shown by words and actions. Showing commitment with words is one of the most powerful ways of showing your significant other how much you care. Give each other a token of your own love, that's important to you. Every couple is unique, so you can show commitment any way you wish to. Another popular idea is to have tattoos on your wedding fingers - that way they can never get lost!

Eight Years Wedding Anniversary Gifts: What To Buy

Today, we’re going to be looking at eight years wedding anniversary gifts, and the best gifts to buy your significant other. Your first decade as a married couple is fast approaching, and another year spent together is always worth celebrating. But what do you get as an 8 yr anniversary present? Let’s take a look at the traditional, modern, flowers and gemstones for 8 years of marriage.

You’re probably already aware, but for every year of marriage, there’s a different symbol – whether that be paper, gold, silver; there’s a different one for each year. There’s not only a unique symbol, but also a modern version, a gemstone, and even a specific flower. We’ll be covering it all in this article, alongside our top picks.

List Of Gifts For 8 Year Anniversary

  • Traditional: Bronze and Pottery
  • Modern: Lace and Linen
  • Gemstone: Tourmaline (alternatives: Tanzanite and Aventurine)
  • Flower: Clematis and Lilac

It’s worth noting that these gifts are relevant to the US. For example, in the UK, the 8th year wedding anniversary gift is salt (not quite as exciting as bronze or pottery!).

Eight Years Wedding Anniversary Gifts

If you’re looking for ideas, then look no further! Whether you’re wanting to go down the traditional route, or something more modern – we’ve got you covered. Gift ideas for him or her; let’s take a look.

You Are My Rock – 8th Year Anniversary with Solid Bronze Insert

This is a super cute gift that incorporates bronze subtly, but perfectly. The rock itself is solid metal and weighs in at 200 grams, so it would work perfectly as a paperweight! It comes beautifully packaged in wood straw, and the bronze insert within the rock makes it the perfect gift for an 8 year wedding anniversary. With the words “you are my rock” engraved, it really is a sentimental gift.

It comes in at just $25.99 and fits snugly in the palm of your hand. With a rating of 4.7 out of 5 stars – it’s not hard to see why this gift is so popular as an anniversary gift. You can find the rock here.

Bronze Stained Metal Rose

Flowers always work well on any anniversary, so what about a bronze metal flower? Unlike other flowers, this one will last forever – just like your love for one another. It’s 11 inches long (around the size of a standard rose), which makes it all the more realistic. It’s subtly romantic, and would work well for a male or female.

It costs $49.95 and has a 4.7 out of 5 star rating. You can find this gorgeous keepsake rose here.

Keepsake Hands Casting Kit

While this isn’t exactly pottery, it does have to be shaped and molded, which is why I think it would work perfectly for an 8th wedding anniversary. It’s an activity you can do together and something that will last forever. You can display the cast of your hands once you’ve done it, and you’ll always be reminded of your 8th year wedding anniversary when you look at it.

It’s currently on offer for $39.98, saving over $10 – so now’s the perfect time to make your purchase! This product has over 24,000 ratings (!) and has a 4.6 out of 5-star rating. You can find the Luna Bean Keepsake Kit here.

Sterling Silver Tourmaline Ring

If your wife likes her jewelry, this pink tourmaline ring would be the perfect addition to her jewelry collection. Not only is it symbolic of 8 years of marriage (it’s the gemstone of 8 years, remember?), but it’s utterly gorgeous! The ring comes in sizes 5-12 and has a rhodium-plated finish. It has a touch of class to it and is dripping in elegance.

The ring itself is $49.99 and comes in a jewelry pouch. It has a rating of 4.4 stars out of 5 and comes highly recommended from the reviews on Amazon. You can find the pink tourmaline RB gems ring here.

Flowers

While I don’t have a link for this one, you can never go wrong with flowers. Head to your local florist and get a bouquet of clematis and lilac. Ensure she knows that those flowers are the symbol of 8 years of marriage. It’s an extremely sentimental gift, that care and thought have definitely gone into. Most florists will be able to make a bouquet tailored to your requests, and you can usually add a note too.

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped you to become more familiar with eight years wedding anniversary gifts. There’s a plethora of gorgeous ideas out there, with places such as Amazon and Etsy providing the best choices for purchasing. Eight years of marriage down – forever to go!

What did you buy your significant other for eight years of marriage? Did you follow tradition? I’d love to know your experiences, so please feel free to let me know in the comments below. Sharing is caring!

FAQs

What is the 8th wedding anniversary symbol?

The 8th wedding anniversary symbol is bronze. This is the traditional wedding anniversary symbol, and pottery is also another symbol that represents eight years together. In previous years of marriage, symbols have been copper and iron. Bronze is said to be stronger than both of those metals, which is why it comes later in the years of celebrating.

What is the 8th wedding anniversary called?

The 8th wedding anniversary is called bronze or pottery; and is sometimes known as the year of durability. Both bronze and pottery are durable materials, and work well as a foundation. This is a metaphor for having set the foundation of your marriage. It's very fitting.

What is the gift for 8 year anniversary?

There are several gifts that you associate with 8 years of marriage, and it all comes down to whether you want to celebrate in the traditional way, or the modern way. If you're wanting to follow tradition, bronze and pottery are the gifts to buy. If you're looking for something more modern, you can opt for linen and lace, which are the modern symbols for the 8 year anniversary.

What To Write In A Wedding Guest Book: Our Top Picks

Today, we’re going to be looking at our top picks on what to write in a wedding guest book. Classic, casual, funny – we’ll be covering it all! As a guest, you’ll likely want to leave a message that will leave a lasting impression on the happy couple. Something they’ll be able to look back fondly on in the years to come. But what can you write in a wedding wishes guest book? Let’s take a closer look.

What Is A Wedding Guest Book?

A wedding guest book is a way for guests to share and write their good wishes and sometimes even advice, for the happy couple. It’s something the couple will be able to treasure forever. Some couples choose to use a traditional book, whereas other couples choose to use something unique like a jigsaw puzzle, or giant Jenga bricks!

What To Write In A Wedding Guest Book: Funny

Some guests want to have the last laugh, so don’t be afraid to write down something funny in the guest book! It may be a break from all the emotion.

  • Thanks for the free food and drink! …Oh, and congratulations on the wedding!
  • It’s official…you’re stuck with one another! Good luck. And congratulations on your special day.
  • Thanks for all the free gin.
  • There’s nowhere I’d rather get drunk than on your wedding night, celebrating with you both.
  • Congratulations. No more holding in farts now, right?
  • Congrats on your special day…but when are you cutting the cake again?
  • Being married is like any job. It really does help if you like your boss!
  • It’s not true that married men live longer than those that are single…it just seems that way! Good luck.

What To Write In A Wedding Guest Book: Classic

Some people may wish to write a message that’s simple and to the point. If this is what you’re looking for, why not use one of these options?

  • Congratulations on your special day. Thank you for letting me be a part of it.
  • Your wedding day may come and go, but I hope your love will continue to grow.
  • I wouldn’t want to be anywhere else than celebrating this day with you both.
  • As you embark on your new adventure, I just want to say congratulations, and thank you for letting me be part of your special day.
  • You will grow and change over the years, but I hope your love for each other remains constant throughout your lives.
  • We’ve celebrated so many times over the years, but this one is one to remember always. Congratulations!

What To Write In A Wedding Guest Book: Casual

If casual is your style, try one of these simple suggestions.

  • Congratulations newlyweds! So happy for you both.
  • Congrats on your special day!
  • Sending love and hugs on your wedding day.
  • Best wishes for the future, and the adventures that await.
  • Thank you for letting me be a part of your special day. Congrats!

What To Write In A Wedding Guest Book: Family

If you’re looking to welcome someone into the family, try using one of these cute starting points.

  • Our family couldn’t be luckier to have you as an addition.
  • Welcome to the family. It’s absolutely crazy…but you’ll love it!
  • I couldn’t be happier to have you in my life as a (brother/sister etc.)
  • You were already part of the family…but now it’s official!
  • From this day onwards, you’ll always have a (brother/sister/mother, etc.) in me.

Quotes For Wedding Guest Book

If one half of the happy couple has a favorite author or quote. Or if the couple is religious, why not quote a verse from the bible? Or a quote about love from an infamous book? Let’s take a look at some of our top picks.

  • “Love doesn’t make the world go round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile.”
  • “Love may be patient, and it may be kind, but it’s also the most beautiful thing in the universe.”
  • “The highest happiness on Earth is the happiness of marriage”.
  • “Love recognizes no barriers, it jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination, full of hope”.
  • “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”
  • “We loved with a love that was more than love.”
  • “Love is God’s gift to us – your union is a celebration of God’s gift.”

If the bride or groom is a bookworm, it may be best to use a quote from their favorite author – it’s a really thoughtful thing to do too!

How To Decide What To Write In A Wedding Guest Book

If you’re unsure which route to go down when choosing what to write, consider how close you are to the couple and the relationship that you have with them. Let’s take a look at some brief pointers on how to help you gage what to write.

  • Know them from school or college? Try something funny and light-hearted
  • Is it a casual, relaxed wedding? Write something to match the wedding. Keep it casual and simple
  • Are the couple much older? Try something formal and more traditional (depending on the couple, of course)
  • Is it a formal wedding? Try to be formal with your message

You’ll usually be able to tell from the vibe of the wedding the kind of message that the couple would like. You can find more suggestions on how to decide what to write here.

Read more about When To Have Bridal Shower and Bachelorette Party: The Perfect Time

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped you to figure out what to write in a wedding guest book and given you some inspiration for the next wedding you attend. Try to match your message to the relationship you have with the couple and you can’t go wrong!

Do you have any ideas on what to write? Did you write something particularly funny that you’d like to share? Please feel free to let me know any suggestions in the comments below. Sharing is caring!

What To Wear At A Bachelorette Party As A Guest: Must Know

Today, we’re going to be looking at what to wear at a bachelorette party as a guest. You’ve been invited to a bachelorette party and you’ve likely been looking forward to this moment for weeks, or even months, now. And finding the perfect outfit for any event can be difficult – so what do you wear to a bachelorette party? Can you wear white? Are there do’s and don’ts? Let’s take a closer look.

What Is A Bachelorette Party?

A bachelorette party is one of the most exciting days for the bride (and her bridal party) before the wedding. It’s a time to come together and celebrate her last night out in singlehood. It’s a chance for the bride to let her hair down and have some fun with her nearest and dearest female friends (and sometimes family).

It usually takes place a few months prior to the wedding and can be anything from a weekend away in Vegas, to pizza and wine in my pajamas from the comfort of your home!

Dressing For The Occasion – Bachelorette Party Dress Code Ideas

Your outfit will depend entirely on the activity of your bachelorette party and whether there’s a dress code. If it’s a spa weekend, you don’t really want to be turning up in a black formal gown! And if it’s a fancy dress party, you don’t want to be turning up in a pair of jeans and heels!

So if there’s no specific dress code and you know what you’re doing – here are some suggestions to wear for each occasion.

Dinner and Dancing

A night out bachelorette party outfit is one of the easiest. If you’re going for a traditional bachelorette party of dinner and then hitting the nightclubs, the perfect outfit is that little black dress hidden away in your closet for special occasions. Your shoes and accessories for the outfit can be changed depending on where you’re going for your night out. But you can never go wrong with a pair of stiletto heels!

Spa Getaway

Spa days are the perfect way to relax and grab some me-time before the wedding. It’s always best to bring a swimming costume to a spa – you never know when you might end up in the hot tub! And for the daytime, some sweatpants and a t-shirt are completely fine. You can find some super cute Bride Squad matching tee and shorts from sites like Boohoo. They make for some great photos!

Weekend Away

The outfits for the weekend away all depend on where you’re going! It’s always best to throw in a swimming costume and towel. And you can’t go wrong with a maxi dress or a cocktail dress for the evening – particularly if you’re going somewhere warm. Just don’t forget to bring a jacket – it can get chilly in the evenings!

Read more about What To Write In A Wedding Guest Book: Our Top Picks

Wine Tasting

Wine tasting is becoming increasingly popular for bachelorette parties. And it’s an event that is a lot more relaxed in terms of what to wear. A sundress and trainers are more than dressy enough! But if you want to go all out and dress up, there’s nothing stopping you. It just may be better to dress more casual…especially with all the wine you’ll be drinking!

Glamping

THERMALS! If you’re going glamping, it may be cold so make sure you bring enough clothes to keep you warm and cozy. Jeans and jumpers are perfect for glamping. Comfortable is the keyword to focus on when you’re choosing your outfits for glamping!

Staying Home

The perks of having a stay-at-home bachelorette party is that it can be as chill as possible! This is the time to get personalized robes and pajamas. Take some super cute photos in your matching attire and play some fun games – all from the comfort of your home!

Bachelorette Party Attire Tips

Here are some tips and tricks you may want to stick to when choosing your outfit.

  1. Don’t Wear White. This should go without saying, but it’s always best to avoid white. White is the color that is strictly reserved for the bride, and unless she specifically states in the dress code that she wants you to wear white – steer clear! The bride may not even want to wear white for her bachelorette party, but it’s always best to avoid it, just in case.
  2. Follow the Dress Code. If there is a dress code, do follow it as closely as possible. It’s the bride’s special day and you don’t want to take any of the attention away from her by turning up in an outfit that isn’t appropriate or makes you stand out for the wrong reasons.
  3. Go for Comfort. Wear whatever you feel most comfortable in. If there’s any part of the day you feel insecure about (such as wearing a bathing suit), talk to the bride or the maid of honor. You can easily adapt outfits to suit all body shapes and sizes, so be sure to include everyone.
  4. Make it Your Own. While most bachelorette parties will wear matching tees, sashes, etc., be sure to make your outfit your own. Add a belt, a hat, or a piece of statement jewelry. While it’s cute to be matching, you want to be able to tell you all apart!

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped to answer the question of what to wear at a bachelorette party as a guest. It really couldn’t be easier! You probably already have something tucked away in your closet to suit any occasion. As long as you’re sticking to any dress code given, and dressing appropriately for the activity – you can’t really go wrong with your outfit choice.

What did you wear as a guest to any bachelorette parties you’ve attended in the past? If you have any tips, tricks, or ideas, please feel free to let me know in the comments below. Sharing is caring!

What To Write In A Bachelorette Party Card: Top Picks

Today, we’re going to be looking at what to write in a bachelorette party card. While it’s not expected to bring gifts or a card to a bachelorette party, it’s becoming increasingly common. And with the bride to be likely receiving several cards, you want to make yours memorable. There are so many fads and trends around weddings and bachelorette parties, but this is one I love.

A card is something small, but meaningful, that the bride will be able to treasure forever. Whether you’re looking for something funny, flirty, or sentimental – we’ve got you covered! Let’s take a closer look at bachelorette card messages for the bride.

Bachelorette Card Sayings

If you’re looking for something like a quote or a phrase for the card, there are hundreds to choose from! Here are just a few of our favorites, which we think will work perfectly for any bride.

  • You’ve helped make the best “I Do” crew
  • Kiss the Miss Goodbye
  • No More Single Life
  • Blessed with the Best
  • Here’s Celebrating Love, Laughter, and Your Happily Ever After
  • Muggle to Mrs.
  • Those Boots Were Made for Walking Down the Aisle
  • (Bride’s name)’s Last Rodeo
  • Time for the Last Splash
  • Love You a Brunch
  • Wife of the Party
  • The End of Single Life, Time to be a Wife

Funny Card Sayings

If you’re looking for a funny bachelorette message for the bride, look no further! Here’s just a few to leave her crying with laughter, instead of happy tears at her party!

  • Wine Flies When You’re Having Fun
  • You’re Tying the Knot, Let’s Pop the Top!
  • One Tequila, Two Tequila, Three Tequila, Floor
  • Bach, Please!
  • Last Fling Before the Ring
  • Let’s Play Before We Give You Away
  • She’s Not a Regular Bride, She’s a Cool Bride
  • Always a Bridesmaid…Never a Sober One!
  • Let’s Look Like Beauties, but Party Like Beasts!
  • We’ve Got One More Night, Let’s Do it Right
  • Watch Me Sip, Sip, Chardonnay-nay
  • “To  keep your marriage brimming / with love in the wedding cup / Whenever you’re wrong, admit it / whenever you’re right, shut up.” – Ogden Nash
  • “I love being married. It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” – Rita Rudner
  • I’ve heard that marriage is hard. When the going gets tough, you have my number! Haha. Luck and love to you always.

Sentimental Card Sayings

If you’re looking for something sentimental that will melt her heart and give her something to smile about, why not try one of these.

  • Your wedding may just be one day, but the love that you’ve found is forever. I can’t wait to share your wedding day with you and I look forward to seeing where your married journey takes you. I’ll be with you every step of the way. Today, and always
  • In the words of Audrey Hepburn, “the best thing to hold onto in life is each other”. You’ve found this in your forever partner, and you also have it in your forever friend. Thank you for letting me be a part of your special day
  • Your wedding day may feel like the end, but it’s really only the beginning. The beginning of a new journey and a new adventure. I can’t wait to see your relationship blossom and grow even further once you’re a wife for life
  • I never believed in Happily Ever After until I saw you and (partner’s name). We know that soulmates are real when we look at you both and I’m so blessed to be a small part of your own fairytale
  • “A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet because they tear down your walls and smack you awake.” – Elizabeth Gilbert
  • “Marriage is getting to have a sleepover with your best friend, every single night of the week.” – Christie Cook
  • As the years you spend together multiply, I hope your love for each other will only amplify
  • Marriage isn’t a destination, it’s a journey. It may not be an easy one, and I’m sure they’ll be bumps along the way. But we’ll be here to lift you up whenever you need us. Today, and always
  • In the words of the Queen that is Phoebe Buffay, I’m so happy you’ve found your “lobster”. Your soulmate. The love of your life
  • Paul Valery said, “love is being stupid together”, so never stop being stupid with your new husband (or wife)…and me

Read more about How To Not Cry At Your Wedding: No Ugly Tears!

Generic Card Sayings

If you’re not one for sentiments and just want to send your best wishes to the bride to be in a generic way, that’s absolutely okay! Here are some of our top picks:

  • Congratulations! I’m so happy to be part of your special day and wish you the best of luck on your new adventure together
  • Here’s to a special day, and long and happy life together. Sending you love and luck on your wedding day
  • I hope you’re as happy throughout the rest of your life as you are on your wedding day. Congratulations!
  • Have a happy day, a happy year, and happy marriage. Congratulations!
  • Best wishes on your special day. May you love each other as much for the rest of your lives, as you do today

If you’re looking for the perfect bachelorette party cards, online stores like Etsy have some amazing options. You can take a look at all they have to offer here.

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped you to know what to write in a bachelorette party card. Or at least given you a starting point. There isn’t anything, in particular, you need to write on the card, but something memorable will always be nice for the bride to be – whether it’s memorable for funny or sentimental reasons!

Do you have any ideas on what to write on a bachelorette party card? Please feel free to leave any suggestions you have in the comments below.

Cute Ways To Ask For Money As A Wedding Gift: How To

Today, we’re going to look at cute ways to ask for money as a wedding gift. Traditionally, physical gifts were given to help kit out your new home together with whatever you may need. However, nowadays, most couples are already living together – and there’s no real need for a toaster or a kettle. Asking for money as a wedding gift is something that is becoming increasingly popular. And there’s a huge debate whether it’s considered rude or not.

However, there are plenty of polite ways to ask for money for a wedding! I’m sure your guests would much rather their gift go to good use, rather than not being used. So let’s look at how to ask for money for the wedding. There are lots of cute ways, and it’s easier than you may think!

Where Do I Ask For Money?

There are a few places you can ask for money, and it’s best to choose whichever you feel most comfortable with. There’s no right or wrong place to ask – so whatever works best for you. Here are a few ideas as to where you can make your monetary requests.

Wedding Invitations

While it may be the most blunt, asking in your wedding invitations is the easiest way to do it. It’s direct, every guest will read it and you’ll likely find most guests will be happy to oblige. There are plenty of cute ways to word this, which we’ll be taking a look at later.

Wedding Website

For my own wedding, I had a wedding website. I found it was a great place to have all the information guests needed in one place. Some guests will lose invites so it’s always best to have backup information. I had an FAQ page with the most popular questions guests may have. I also had a gifting section, whereby I had politely asked for money donations for our wedding gifts, which would be put towards our dream honeymoon – no one seemed to mind!

Ask Friends and Family

If you’d prefer to ask people in person and ask friends and family to spread the word around, rather than it being on your invites or online – go for it! Some couples prefer to be upfront, and that’s absolutely fine. However, if you’re relying on family and friends to spread the word, be prepared that some guests may not be told. And you also can’t control the way in which it’s asked – so it can be a tricky one to navigate!

Set up a Registry

A registry is one of the most common, direct ways to go about asking for money. You can explain in detail what the money is for and guests will feel safe using a well-known registry such as Honeyfund or The Knot. They’re well trusted and easy to navigate.

Social Media

You’ll likely be friends with all of your wedding guests on social media – there aren’t many people who don’t have some form of social media nowadays! Make a post asking for a monetary gift for your wedding, and add a super cute poem. Guests may also not feel as much pressure if it’s on social media.

How Do I Ask For Money As A Wedding Gift?

Whether you’re looking for money for a honeymoon, a house fund, a new baby, or simply for a bit of fun – be sure to tell your guests why you’re asking for money. Guests will feel more comfortable if they know what their money is being put towards. And it’s seen as courteous to make your guests aware of what you’re saving for.

Poems

Without a doubt, I would always opt for a poem. They’re super cute, polite, and a direct way to ask your guests without seeming rude. Here are some of our favorite poems to use for your money requests.

If a gift is your intention,
We thought that we would mention,
We’d love some pennies to rub together,
To save for something we will treasure!

OR

As we’re getting married, we thought it would be great,
To move into a brand new home — we really cannot wait!
As wedding gifts are bulky and we’re a little short on space,
Some money would be the ideal gift to help us buy our place!

OR

We’d love for you to celebrate our wedding with us,
But there’s really no need for a big old fuss.
There will be no gift-laden table,
So actually, if you are able
We’d much prefer the gift of money
So we can jet off somewhere sunny!

These are just a few suggestions – there are plenty of poems to choose from, or you can even write your own to make it really personal.

Wording

If you don’t think a poem is suitable for you as a couple, here are a few simple, polite phrases you can use to ask for monetary gifts.

  • Having you in our lives, and at our wedding is the greatest gift as all. However, if you wish to gift us anything, a cash gift would be very welcome (to help with honeymoon/new home, etc.)
  • We are lucky enough to have a home full of everything we need, so if you’d like to help us celebrate our wedding with a gift, a cash gift would be very welcome
  • Cash gifts are welcome, but not at all expected. Your presence at our wedding is more than enough of a gift

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped to show you some cute ways to ask for money as a wedding gift. Nowadays, it’s far more acceptable to be seen asking for money instead of a traditional gift, so if you’re putting the money to good use, don’t be afraid to ask! I’m sure your guests will be more than happy to help. Maybe add a handful of physical gifts to the gift registry for any guests who may prefer to do so.

How Much Do Tuxedos Cost? (Everything You Need To Know)

Today, we’re going to be answering the question: how much do tuxedos cost? The price of a tuxedo will vary on a range of factors, and we’ll be covering them all. Your wedding will often be one of the most expensive days of your lives and you’ll likely have already set a budget for a bridal gown – but tuxedos can be expensive too! But how much should you be setting aside for the average tuxedo? Let’s take a closer look at everything you need to know.

What Is A Tuxedo?

You may be wondering what the difference is between a suit and a tuxedo. The main difference between the two is the presence of satin. Tuxedos often have satin on the lapels, which a standard suit will not. It’s common knowledge that a tuxedo is the traditional wedding attire for a man on his wedding day, and most grooms will opt for a tuxedo. However, if you’re more comfortable wearing a suit, you can (my husband did) – and it was much cheaper too!

What Is The Average Price Of A Tuxedo?

How much do tuxedos cost is one of the most common questions a groom will ask. Tuxedos are much more luxurious than suits and the price reflects that. Of course, the price will vary on a range of factors, so it’s impossible to predict the price of the tuxedo of your choice. However, in the US the average price of buying a tuxedo can cost anywhere from $300 – $1000!

If you’re looking to rent a tuxedo, this is a much more budget-friendly option and the average price for a tuxedo hire is around $200.

Rent Or Buy A Tuxedo?

It’s a difficult decision to choose whether you’d like to buy or rent a tuxedo. Here are a few points you may want to consider before making a choice.

  • Will, you re-wear the tuxedo? This is an important one. If it’s going to be collecting dust in your closet and is unlikely to never see the light of day again – it may be better to hire a tuxedo.
  • What is your budget? The budget you have will likely dictate whether you can stretch to buy a tuxedo or stick to rental.
  • Do you want to customize it? If you want to add anything and make it unique to your special day, you’ll need to buy a tuxedo. Rental tuxedos can not be changed.
  • Do you want to tailor it? If you want your tuxedo altered to fit you perfectly, you’ll need to buy one outright. Rental tuxedos can not be altered in any way and should return in the condition you picked them up in.

Factors To Consider

Whether you want to buy or rent a tuxedo, there are lots of factors that will dictate how much the price will be. Here are a few points you may want to consider when you are deciding upon your budget for the groom’s outfit.

  • Suit vs Tuxedo. A tuxedo will no doubt be the pricier option. If you’re looking for a cheaper alternative, opt for a suit instead.
  • Fabric. The more luxurious the fabric, the higher the price will be.
  • Alterations. Some places will offer alterations for free, but often there will be an additional cost if you want your wedding suit to fit perfectly.
  • Designer. Undoubtedly, the vital factor is whether you want a designer suit or not. The more elusive the designer, the higher the price point will be.
  • Renting or Buying. It may feel constricting to rent a suit, but tuxedo rental stores will often have many tuxedos to choose from, in a range of styles, fabrics, designers, and even accessories – so don’t exclude renting a tux before you’ve given it some consideration!

Additional Costs

Once you’ve decided on your tuxedo, there may be additional costs to factor into your budget.

  • Tailoring. If you want your tuxedo to fit like a glove, you will likely need to set around $100 of your budget for any alterations that you may need.
  • Accessories. Accessories can be deceptively expensive! This will cover everything from cufflinks, vests, bow ties, etc. Some stores offer packages which will include accessories, so be sure to ask as you may be able to arrange a deal that includes everything you need.
  • Cleaning. If you’ve chosen to rent a tuxedo, be sure to ask about cleaning costs. Often, the price of cleaning will be included in the price. However, if not – this may be a hefty unexpected bill after your wedding day.

Why Are Tuxedos So Expensive?

It’s a simple answer really – the quality will be better and the look will be more luxurious than that of a standard suit. They look incredibly formal, but also classy too. And everyone looks good in a tux! They also will usually have satin, which is one of the most expensive fabrics.

If you’re looking for the best place to buy a tuxedo for the groom or groomsmen, Brides has an incredible article of The 16 Best Places to Buy a Stylish Tuxedo. From Bloomingdale’s to Bonobos, it’s a great place to start your search for the perfect wedding tux.

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped to answer the question: how much do tuxedos cost? And give you an idea of the average tuxedo price and how to budget for your special day. Whether you opt for a traditional suit or a tuxedo, or a rental or bought tux – the most important part of your day is the marriage! I was super nervous about everything, but once I started walking down the aisle at my own wedding – everything else seemed trivial, besides me, him – and that moment.

Did you buy or rent a tuxedo for your wedding? Or did you even wear a tuxedo? Whatever your stance is, please feel free to let me know in the comments below. And if you’re comfortable sharing locations and prices, please do. You may be helping out future grooms with their own tuxedos! Sharing is caring.

Funny Wedding Team Names: Top 50+

Today, we’re going to be looking at funny wedding team names. And not just funny wedding team names, but classy, friendship, food inspired – all kinds of team names! Let’s be honest, bridesmaids and groomsmen are traditional – but are they fun? Not really. Are they inclusive? Absolutely not. Do they show off how freaking incredible your nearest and dearest are? No way!

So why not use one of our other wedding team name ideas to make your wedding team unique and personal. Whether you’re looking for something laugh-out-loud, cheesy or cute – we’ll be covering them all! And don’t worry, whether you’re looking for gender inclusive, bridal party, or groomsmen names, we have something for everyone.

Gender Inclusive Wedding Team Names

It’s very outdated that men will only have male friends and women will only have female friends. When I got married, I had myself a Man of Honor and he was awesome! Not only that but there may be member(s) of your wedding party who do not identify as male or female – and you want them to feel included as part of your special day!

So if you’re like me, you need something inclusive and suitable for all. Here are some ideas to consider:

  1. “I Do Crew” – this is completely gender neutral and can be used for the bride or groom’s nearest and dearest
  2. “Pew Crew” – if your wedding is happening in a church, this is a fun option to refer to yourselves as
  3. “Harbingers of Wedding Cheer” – this will be sure to leave a smile on everyone’s face who’s part of this gang!
  4. “Bridesminions” – it scraps any gender and just makes you the bride’s minions instead – which is totally hilarious!
  5. “Bridespeeps” – much like the Bridesminions options, it’s very open and doesn’t conform to any genders
  6. “Commitment Crew” – I love this one! You’re all there for the same thing – to help your friends/family commit to their partner, so what better name than commitment crew?
  7. “Bridesfolk/Groomfolk” – scrap the maids and men, and just replace it with folk!
  8. “Friends of Honor” – if you’re just having friends as part of your bridal party/groomsmen, friends of honor is a great way to group them all together

Bridal Party Wedding Team Names

Bridesmaids/Bridal Party doesn’t seem a good enough name for all the work these wonderful people do to help with your wedding. From the bachelorette party to the bridal shower, to help you get ready on the big day – they’re there every step of the way! So how can you personalize your group name? Here’s a few ideas to get you started:

  1. Tribesmaids
  2. Bridal Par-Tea
  3. Pizza Their Heart
  4. You Can’t Sip With Us (who can resist a Mean Girls reference?)
  5. Bride Squad
  6. It’s Bride Time
  7. Mermaid to be Friends
  8. Nacho Average Bridal Party (this is my favorite! Who doesn’t love a food pun?!)
  9. Friends for Wife
  10. Dream Team
  11. We’ll Be There for You (if the bride is a Friends lover, this is the perfect name!)
  12. Bride and Boujee
  13. Miss to Mrs. Crew
  14. Whole Latte Love Here
  15. Aisle Be There for You (wedding puns are the one!)
  16. Bae Watch
  17. Peachy Queens
  18. Partners in Wine (you can choose partners in crime…but surely partners in wine are even better?!)
  19. Fab Five
  20. Fantastic Four
  21. Three Musketeers
  22. Doughnut Know What I’d Do Without You
  23. My Support Bras (your friends should be supporting you like your bras, so this is a great funny one!)
  24. Matrimony Homies (this is perfect for the bridal or groom party)
  25. Champagne Campaign
  26. Slay All Day (sassy and fabulous!)
  27. We Can’t Keep Calm, She’s Getting Married
  28. On Her Side
  29. Bride Entourage
  30. Wedding Sisterhood
  31. Pillars of Strength
  32. Bride’s Ride or Die’s

Groomsmen Wedding Team Names

Hey, this is definitely not just for the bride’s side of the wedding. The groom can definitely have his own team name too! Here are some of our favorite ideas to choose from:

  1. Suited and Booted
  2. Matrimony Homies
  3. Broship
  4. Broship Enterprise (perfect for any nerds in your life!)
  5. Bachelor Brigade
  6. Groom’s Gang
  7. Goodfellas (is the groom a film fan? If so, this is a perfect choice!)
  8. Team Groom
  9. The Henchmen
  10. The Bodyguards
  11. Matrimony Matrix (any Matrix fans out there?)
  12. Right-Hand Men
  13. Groomsquad
  14. Honor Guard
  15. Groom’s Guild
  16. Caught in a Bad Bromance (cheesy, bromantic, and funny)
  17. Three Musketeers
  18. Fantastic Four
  19. Fab Five
  20. Avengers Assemble (who doesn’t love superheroes?)

Other Team Names

If none of our options are taking your fancy, why not invent your own? There may be a specific nickname that you go by or something that’s particularly relevant to you and your friends. If so, try and incorporate that into the group name.

When you have your bachelor/bachelorette parties, you can even have personalized t-shirts and sashes with your name on them. Or maybe even on your wedding day, present each member of the party with a small gift that has the group name on it. It’s something that you and your nearest and dearest will be able to treasure forever.

If you’re looking for funny phrases or sayings to go alongside your team name, Party Conclusions has a great article which will leave you spoilt for choice!

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped you to become more familiar with funny wedding team names and any other options you may be looking for when deciding on a name. Try to make it as memorable and unique as possible. That way you’ll all never be able to think of those words again without being reminded of a really special time in your life. It’s important to make everyone feel welcome and included in your tribe.

Did you have a unique wedding team name? Or are you choosing one of our favorites from this list? If so, please feel free to let me know in the comments below. I love hearing from you! And if you have your own ideas, you may be helping out future brides and grooms with their own funny wedding team names!

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