Zoe, Author at DIY Wedding Tips

How To Ask Guests To Sign Guest Book: A Guide

Today, we’re going to be looking at how to ask guests to sign the guest book and the best ways to do so. A guest book is a perfect way to remember your wedding fondly in years to come. It’s something that my husband and I often get out to have a look at, and read through all the beautiful messages.

It’ll be something you’ll treasure forever. But how do you encourage guests to sign? What do you write on the wedding guest book introduction page? Let’s take a closer look.

What Is A Wedding Guest Book?

If you’re not familiar with what a wedding guest book is, a wedding guest book is a way to express your love and happiness for the happy couple on their wedding day. You can even write down some words of advice. Traditionally, the guest book is on a table at the reception, for guests to sign as they wish.

Guest Book Sign Wording

The easiest way to signpost your guest book is a wedding guest book sign. It’s a great way to encourage guests to write a message. Here are some ideas for sign wording that you may like to consider:

Share Your Words of Wisdom. Guests may like to leave advice on married life, so it’s a great way to attract attention and gives guests an idea of what to write
Please Wish Us Well! Rather than using “sign our guestbook”, asking for good wishes is a good alternative. It’s simple and straight to the point
“Love is…” Again, this enables guests to have an idea of what to write and is a super cute idea to find out every guest’s definition of love
Share a Memory of Us. This is the perfect way to fill your guest book with happy memories of every guest at your wedding. They’ll be ones to make you laugh, and ones to make you cry, for sure!

Wedding Guest Book Introduction Page Wording

The first page your guests will see is the introduction page. You want it to be simple, but sweet. And convey the message of what you’re looking to get out of the guest book. Some couples opt for a cute poem, while others opt for wording straight to the point. Let’s take a look at our top picks.

Simple but Sweet

Here are a few ideas that get straight to the point:

Please leave us a message so we can read this back on our first wedding anniversary, and the years to come.
Please write down your favorite moments from our special day.
A new book for the start of a new journey. Please help us write the first chapter.
Your good wishes will be kept safe, bound within this book,
Once in a while, we’ll open it and take another look.
Please write a message, for the bride and groom to treasure,
It’s something we’ll be able to cherish from now until forever.

Cute Poems

If you’re wanting something more wordy and lengthy, why not try one of these options?

Please write a message,
For the bride and groom to treasure,
It’s something we’ll be able to cherish,
From now until forever.
All your well wishes will be kept safe,
Bound up within this book,
And every so often we’ll open it,
To take another look.
On this table, you will find,
Our wedding guest book for you to sign.
Please take a moment on a page so bare
a sentiment or two to share.
Please use a page for each of you
so that we may know your feelings are true.
We’re so glad you came,
So we’d love for you to sign your name,
And write perhaps a line or two
By which we can remember you.
Then when our special day has passed
Our memories of our wedding will last
For when we look at it we’ll see
Amazing words from friends and family.
This day for us is special,
A day beyond compare
The joy we feel within our hearts
We’re glad that you can share.
Now share with us your marriage advice
For a long and happy life
Present us with your words of wisdom
To help us as man and wife

Ways To Encourage Guests To Sign Guest Book

You may be wondering how to encourage guests to sign your guest book. You definitely want to encourage as many guests as possible to sign the book, as it really is one of my favorite mementos from the wedding. It’s particularly good to read on anniversaries and tough times.

Here are some top tips on how to encourage guests to sign your guest book.

Place at the Entrance. If you put the book at the entrance to your reception, it’ll be the first thing your guests see when they enter the wedding. Once guests have taken their seats, it may be more difficult to get them to sign – so it’s a great place for it to be.
Use a Sign. Signs using some of the wording from above is the perfect way to highlight that you’d really like guests to sign and where to sign.
Have Someone Stood Nearby. Have someone from your bridal party stand at the table calling people over to sign the book.
Make it Stunning. The prettier it looks, the more attention it’ll attract – so make sure it looks beautiful!
Use a Unique Guest Book. If you use something besides a traditional book, that’ll attract attention too. You can find some amazing wedding guest book ideas here.

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped you to become more familiar with how to ask guests to sign the guest book and the best ways to encourage guests out of their seats and over to your guest book to write some memories!

Do you have any other tips? Please feel free to let me know any suggestions in the comments below.

What To Wear At A Bachelorette Party As A Guest: Must Know

Today, we’re going to be looking at what to wear at a bachelorette party as a guest. You’ve been invited to a bachelorette party and you’ve likely been looking forward to this moment for weeks, or even months, now. And finding the perfect outfit for any event can be difficult – so what do you wear to a bachelorette party? Can you wear white? Are there do’s and don’ts? Let’s take a closer look.

What Is A Bachelorette Party?

A bachelorette party is one of the most exciting days for the bride (and her bridal party) before the wedding. It’s a time to come together and celebrate her last night out in singlehood. It’s a chance for the bride to let her hair down and have some fun with her nearest and dearest female friends (and sometimes family).

It usually takes place a few months prior to the wedding and can be anything from a weekend away in Vegas, to pizza and wine in my pajamas from the comfort of your home!

Dressing For The Occasion – Bachelorette Party Dress Code Ideas

Your outfit will depend entirely on the activity of your bachelorette party and whether there’s a dress code. If it’s a spa weekend, you don’t really want to be turning up in a black formal gown! And if it’s a fancy dress party, you don’t want to be turning up in a pair of jeans and heels!

So if there’s no specific dress code and you know what you’re doing – here are some suggestions to wear for each occasion.

Dinner and Dancing

A night out bachelorette party outfit is one of the easiest. If you’re going for a traditional bachelorette party of dinner and then hitting the nightclubs, the perfect outfit is that little black dress hidden away in your closet for special occasions. Your shoes and accessories for the outfit can be changed depending on where you’re going for your night out. But you can never go wrong with a pair of stiletto heels!

Spa Getaway

Spa days are the perfect way to relax and grab some me-time before the wedding. It’s always best to bring a swimming costume to a spa – you never know when you might end up in the hot tub! And for the daytime, some sweatpants and a t-shirt are completely fine. You can find some super cute Bride Squad matching tee and shorts from sites like Boohoo. They make for some great photos!

Weekend Away

The outfits for the weekend away all depend on where you’re going! It’s always best to throw in a swimming costume and towel. And you can’t go wrong with a maxi dress or a cocktail dress for the evening – particularly if you’re going somewhere warm. Just don’t forget to bring a jacket – it can get chilly in the evenings!

Wine Tasting

Wine tasting is becoming increasingly popular for bachelorette parties. And it’s an event that is a lot more relaxed in terms of what to wear. A sundress and trainers are more than dressy enough! But if you want to go all out and dress up, there’s nothing stopping you. It just may be better to dress more casual…especially with all the wine you’ll be drinking!

Glamping

THERMALS! If you’re going glamping, it may be cold so make sure you bring enough clothes to keep you warm and cozy. Jeans and jumpers are perfect for glamping. Comfortable is the keyword to focus on when you’re choosing your outfits for glamping!

Staying Home

The perks of having a stay-at-home bachelorette party is that it can be as chill as possible! This is the time to get personalized robes and pajamas. Take some super cute photos in your matching attire and play some fun games – all from the comfort of your home!

Bachelorette Party Attire Tips

Here are some tips and tricks you may want to stick to when choosing your outfit.

Don’t Wear White. This should go without saying, but it’s always best to avoid white. White is the color that is strictly reserved for the bride, and unless she specifically states in the dress code that she wants you to wear white – steer clear! The bride may not even want to wear white for her bachelorette party, but it’s always best to avoid it, just in case.
Follow the Dress Code. If there is a dress code, do follow it as closely as possible. It’s the bride’s special day and you don’t want to take any of the attention away from her by turning up in an outfit that isn’t appropriate or makes you stand out for the wrong reasons.
Go for Comfort. Wear whatever you feel most comfortable in. If there’s any part of the day you feel insecure about (such as wearing a bathing suit), talk to the bride or the maid of honor. You can easily adapt outfits to suit all body shapes and sizes, so be sure to include everyone.
Make it Your Own. While most bachelorette parties will wear matching tees, sashes, etc., be sure to make your outfit your own. Add a belt, a hat, or a piece of statement jewelry. While it’s cute to be matching, you want to be able to tell you all apart!

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped to answer the question of what to wear at a bachelorette party as a guest. It really couldn’t be easier! You probably already have something tucked away in your closet to suit any occasion. As long as you’re sticking to any dress code given, and dressing appropriately for the activity – you can’t really go wrong with your outfit choice.

What did you wear as a guest to any bachelorette parties you’ve attended in the past? If you have any tips, tricks, or ideas, please feel free to let me know in the comments below. Sharing is caring!

When To Have Bridal Shower and Bachelorette Party: The Perfect Time

Today, we’re going to be looking at when to have a bridal shower and bachelorette party. In the lead-up to any wedding, there are many events to plan and get excited for.

For women, the two that are most common are bridal showers and bachelorette parties – but what’s the difference between the two? Are they the same thing? We’ll be taking a look at the best time to have them and the differences between them both.

What Is A Bridal Shower?

A bridal shower usually occurs in the daytime. It’s a celebration of the bride’s upcoming marriage. It’s a time where gifts are often given to the bride to help them in their new venture of married life. Female family and friends of the bride traditionally receive an invite – however, you can invite whoever you wish.

What Is A Bachelorette Party?

A bachelorette party (or hen night, depending on where you are) is a party held for the bride-to-be. Traditionally it happens in the evening and is attended by females only. However, in more recent years, male friends and family members of the bride can be invited; and some couples even opt to have a joint bachelor and bachelorette party.

Difference Between Bridal Shower And Bachelorette Party

Although they both seem like parties (and they are), there are many differences between the two. The main one being, a bridal shower is to prepare the bride for her venture with gifts and a celebration. Whereas a bachelorette party is usually the time for a bride to let her hair down and celebrate her last night of singlehood.

There are some other significant differences between the two. Let’s take a look.

The Activities

Your bridal shower will often be more sophisticated than your bachelorette party – there may even be children in attendance at your bridal shower. Because of this, you’ll often play family-friendly games, open any gifts you’ve received, and celebrate with a glass of champagne or two.

Whereas at your bachelorette party, you can really let loose and you’ll likely end up with a hangover for the next day or two. And this is the time to use the penis straws and have a bit of fun…definitely not something you’d want your grandma seeing!

The Timing

Some brides do prefer to have their bridal shower in the afternoon, and their bachelorette party in the evening, but traditionally, they are not done at the same time. We’ll be taking a look at the best time to have both in more depth later in this post.

The Guests

While some guests may be attending both parties, the guestlist for both will be significantly different. The guest list for your bridal shower will be much longer than your bachelorette party. Your bridal shower is the place to invite your grandma and your future mother in law, and any other nearest and dearest female friends and family members.

Whereas the bachelorette party is often just your bridal party – the closest females (or males) in your life. It’s the night when you can really have some fun with the closest people in your life.

The Atmosphere

There’s no doubt about it – the atmosphere will likely be completely different. At your bridal party, it’s more likely to be something like brunch, a spa, or afternoon tea. Whereas your bachelorette will likely be at a nightclub or a bar and can last several days; depending on what celebration you choose. One will be calm and relaxing, the other will be wild and fun.

The Hosts

Everyone close to you will likely play a part in the organization of both. However, traditionally the maid/matron of honor and bridesmaids will arrange the bachelorette party and the family of the bride (such as the MIL and mother of the bride) will plan the bridal shower.

When Do You Have Bridal Shower?

The bridal shower is typically much closer to the wedding than the bachelorette. The ideal time is between 2-4 weeks before the wedding. This is the perfect time to celebrate your upcoming nuptials, without being too close to the wedding. The bridal shower only usually lasts a few hours in the afternoon, so you do not need to give as much notice as you would for the bachelorette.

When Do You Have A Bachelorette Party?

Typically, a bachelorette party happens between 1-3 months before the wedding day. This will give you more than enough time to recover, but it’s close enough to the wedding to really feel some excitement. It may last a few days, or at least overnight – so make sure you give any guests plenty of time to get the dates in their diaries.

Where To Go For A Bachelorette Party?

Where you go for your bachelorette party all depends on what type of person you are. Some brides may prefer for a quiet few days around the pool sipping margaritas and being pampered. Whereas other brides may like to go to Las Vegas for a few nights and go out of single life with a bang.

If you’re planning the bachelorette party, it’s important to take the bride’s interests and values into account. If she’s not a party girl, simple afternoon tea and a pamper day may be better suited.

Whichever bride you are, this article from The Knot has some great suggestions on the 32 Best Bachelorette Destinations. There’s something for every bride!

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped you learn when to have a bridal shower and bachelorette party. The truth is, there’s no “perfect” time, the ideal time is when works for you. Some brides may want one long day of celebrating with both parties on the same day, whereas others may like to prolong the celebrations. There’s no right or wrong time.

When did you have your bridal shower and bachelorette party? Was it close to the wedding? Let me know in the comments below.

What To Write In A Bachelorette Party Card: Top Picks

Today, we’re going to be looking at what to write in a bachelorette party card. While it’s not expected to bring gifts or a card to a bachelorette party, it’s becoming increasingly common. And with the bride to be likely receiving several cards, you want to make yours memorable. There are so many fads and trends around weddings and bachelorette parties, but this is one I love.

A card is something small, but meaningful, that the bride will be able to treasure forever. Whether you’re looking for something funny, flirty, or sentimental – we’ve got you covered! Let’s take a closer look at bachelorette card messages for the bride.

Bachelorette Card Sayings

If you’re looking for something like a quote or a phrase for the card, there are hundreds to choose from! Here are just a few of our favorites, which we think will work perfectly for any bride.

You’ve helped make the best “I Do” crew
Kiss the Miss Goodbye
No More Single Life
Blessed with the Best
Here’s Celebrating Love, Laughter, and Your Happily Ever After
Muggle to Mrs.
Those Boots Were Made for Walking Down the Aisle
(Bride’s name)’s Last Rodeo
Time for the Last Splash
Love You a Brunch
Wife of the Party
The End of Single Life, Time to be a Wife

Funny Card Sayings

If you’re looking for a funny bachelorette message for the bride, look no further! Here’s just a few to leave her crying with laughter, instead of happy tears at her party!

Wine Flies When You’re Having Fun
You’re Tying the Knot, Let’s Pop the Top!
One Tequila, Two Tequila, Three Tequila, Floor
Bach, Please!
Last Fling Before the Ring
Let’s Play Before We Give You Away
She’s Not a Regular Bride, She’s a Cool Bride
Always a Bridesmaid…Never a Sober One!
Let’s Look Like Beauties, but Party Like Beasts!
We’ve Got One More Night, Let’s Do it Right
Watch Me Sip, Sip, Chardonnay-nay
“To keep your marriage brimming / with love in the wedding cup / Whenever you’re wrong, admit it / whenever you’re right, shut up.” – Ogden Nash
“I love being married. It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” – Rita Rudner
I’ve heard that marriage is hard. When the going gets tough, you have my number! Haha. Luck and love to you always.

Sentimental Card Sayings

If you’re looking for something sentimental that will melt her heart and give her something to smile about, why not try one of these.

Your wedding may just be one day, but the love that you’ve found is forever. I can’t wait to share your wedding day with you and I look forward to seeing where your married journey takes you. I’ll be with you every step of the way. Today, and always
In the words of Audrey Hepburn, “the best thing to hold onto in life is each other”. You’ve found this in your forever partner, and you also have it in your forever friend. Thank you for letting me be a part of your special day
Your wedding day may feel like the end, but it’s really only the beginning. The beginning of a new journey and a new adventure. I can’t wait to see your relationship blossom and grow even further once you’re a wife for life
I never believed in Happily Ever After until I saw you and (partner’s name). We know that soulmates are real when we look at you both and I’m so blessed to be a small part of your own fairytale
“A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet because they tear down your walls and smack you awake.” – Elizabeth Gilbert
“Marriage is getting to have a sleepover with your best friend, every single night of the week.” – Christie Cook
As the years you spend together multiply, I hope your love for each other will only amplify
Marriage isn’t a destination, it’s a journey. It may not be an easy one, and I’m sure they’ll be bumps along the way. But we’ll be here to lift you up whenever you need us. Today, and always
In the words of the Queen that is Phoebe Buffay, I’m so happy you’ve found your “lobster”. Your soulmate. The love of your life
Paul Valery said, “love is being stupid together”, so never stop being stupid with your new husband (or wife)…and me

Generic Card Sayings

If you’re not one for sentiments and just want to send your best wishes to the bride to be in a generic way, that’s absolutely okay! Here are some of our top picks:

Congratulations! I’m so happy to be part of your special day and wish you the best of luck on your new adventure together
Here’s to a special day, and long and happy life together. Sending you love and luck on your wedding day
I hope you’re as happy throughout the rest of your life as you are on your wedding day. Congratulations!
Have a happy day, a happy year, and happy marriage. Congratulations!
Best wishes on your special day. May you love each other as much for the rest of your lives, as you do today

If you’re looking for the perfect bachelorette party cards, online stores like Etsy have some amazing options. You can take a look at all they have to offer here.

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped you to know what to write in a bachelorette party card. Or at least given you a starting point. There isn’t anything, in particular, you need to write on the card, but something memorable will always be nice for the bride to be – whether it’s memorable for funny or sentimental reasons!

Do you have any ideas on what to write on a bachelorette party card? Please feel free to leave any suggestions you have in the comments below.

What Size Wedding Dress Am I?: Everything You Need To Know

Today, we’re going to be looking at how to answer the question: what size wedding dress am I? Choosing your bridal gown will probably feel like one of the most important aspects of your wedding – at least, it was to me.

When I went bridal gown shopping, I wanted to go in with some knowledge of my measurements and what size I may be. But how do you measure yourself for a wedding dress? Is wedding dress sizing the same as standard clothing sizing? Let’s take a closer look.

Choosing Your Dream Dress

Before you go for your bridal consultation, you may want to do some research online. Whether that be choosing your preferred fabric, dress shape, cut, or style – it’s good to go into the boutique with a vague idea of what you’re looking for.

Of course, that may change the second you try the dress on! But it’s good to go into the store with some ideas of what you’d like to try on and what you’re looking for. That way, your bridal consultant will have a starting point and know where to begin.

I’m one of the rare few who chose my dream dress online, found a local stockist, tried it on…and fell in love. My consultant told me that was incredibly rare and often brides leave the store with a dress completely different than what they’ve envisioned. Even if you love a dress, be sure to try on a few so that you can be sure it’s “the one”.

Are Wedding Dress Sizes Different?

Yes! Wedding dress sizes are different from standard sizing. Whatever size you think you are, that is more than likely not the case in wedding gowns. They are different in many ways – and we’ll be looking at why they’re different in more detail later in this article.

Wedding Dress Sizes: How to Find Out Yours

To find out your size, there’s a range of ways to do this. The size will all depend on the style and shape of the dress. And frustratingly, what fits in one designer’s size, may not fit in another. Let’s take a look at how to find out your wedding dress size.

Do Your Research

Finding out your regular size before you go into a boutique is actually really helpful. Your bridal consultant will know how the sizing of their gowns compares to standard sizing, so giving them that information will be super helpful.

You can also let the consultant know what dresses you usually opt for and suit your body shape – that way they have a starting point on how to flatter your body shape the most, and also what you feel most comfortable in.

How to Take Your Dress Measurements

If you’re wanting to go in with knowledge of what dress size you may be, this is definitely possible. Wed2B has an amazing Wedding Dress Calculator, which lets you input the style of dress you’re looking for and your measurements. Then it gives you a rough sizing for the style – how incredible is that?

Measuring couldn’t be easier, so let’s take a look at the most important measurements and how to take them.

Bust. You should measure directly across the bust and then around under your arms at the widest part of your shoulder blades
Waist. Measure wherever your natural waistline is, all the way around the waist
Hip. Fullest part with feet together
Waist – Hem. Vertically measure from your waistline to the floor

Be sure to use a flexible tape measure so the measurements are as accurate as possible.

Wedding Dress Size Chart

Every bridal boutique and wedding dress designer will have its own size chart, so if you’re looking for a certain designer, be sure to look at their size chart beforehand. Most bridal boutiques have a website you can visit and download their sizing guide.

Do Weddings Gowns Run Small?

Yes! I can’t stress this enough. There is a huge possibility that you will likely need a size or two bigger than usual for your wedding gown. For example, if you’re a size 4, you may need a 6 or 8. While this may be something that you feel insecure about, please don’t. This is very common with wedding dresses and it’s simply just the way the sizing is.

There is no “one chart” for every wedding dress, but most will run smaller than standard sizing.

Is Every Designer Different?

Frustratingly, yes. You may be different sizes depending on which designer you’re trying on. So take into account that every style has slightly different sizing, and every designer does too – knowing your size can be a bit of a minefield!

The most important thing is that you have your measurements, as ultimately that’s how you decide on a size and every designer will have one.

What If I Want To Lose Weight?

Many brides will choose to shift some weight before the big day. It’s important not to buy a size that’s too small for you. While you may think it’ll give you motivation, it puts a lot of pressure on you too. It’s much easier to tailor a dress to make it smaller than it is to make it bigger.

So opt for the dress size you are on the day you try it on, and the dress can be tailored as and when it needs to be. Be sure to shop well in advance so there’s enough time for any adjustments that need to be made.

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped you to answer the question: what wedding dress size am I? And hopefully, you’ll now enter the bridal store brimming with confidence and knowledge about your dress size and style.

Are there any tips you would recommend for finding out your wedding dress size that we’ve not looked at today? Please feel free to leave any answers in the comments below.

How To Tell If He’s Going To Propose: The Signs

Today, we’re going to be looking at how to tell he’s going to propose. And the signs and hints your boyfriend may give when he’s on the road to making his grand proposal. But what should you be looking out for? Can you really tell when he’s about to pop the question? Let’s take a closer look.

Can You Tell When A Man Is Going To Propose?

Let’s be honest, we can never truly know when a man is going to propose, as every man will respond in different ways to the build-up of the proposal. But there are subtle hints and signs you may want to look out for and start preparing for your perhaps imminent engagement.

How Soon Is Too Soon To Propose?

I don’t believe it is ever too soon to propose. While your family and friends may not agree with the proposal, it’s essentially when feels right for the couple. I remember when I and my husband got engaged we’d been together a year and had been living together for 6 months – everyone thought it was too soon. But when you know, you know. And almost 6 years of marriage later, we’re still in a happy marriage.

It’s important that you’re both on the same wavelength, and at least discuss marriage in some way before you propose, as marriage may not be something your partner wants. But as long as you both feel ready, that’s all that matters. Whether that’s two years down the line or two months!

Signs He Will Propose In The Future

There are some signs to look out for that may mean he’s about to propose. Let’s take a look!

Tightening the Budget

If your partner suggests out of the blue that he’s on a tighter budget than usual, or spending less money than he usually would – that may mean a proposal is on the way. Engagement rings can be incredibly expensive, so it could mean he’s saving up for the ring of your dreams.

Becoming More Interested in Jewellery

Is he suddenly asking for your ring size? Or asking if you like silver or gold? Or wondering if you like diamonds or another gemstone? It may just mean he’s buying a piece of jewelry for your birthday or Christmas…or it may mean he’s getting ready to pop the question!

Hanging Out with Your Family Without You

Is he pulling family members inside and having secretive chats? Or going out for a coffee on his lunch break with your mum? Or asking for family’s phone numbers? If this is something he wouldn’t usually do, he may be looking for information on how to make the proposal as perfect as possible, or even asking for permission!

More Conscious of Plans

Is he asking what you’re doing months in advance? Or telling you to keep a particular day or weekend free? While he could just be planning for some quality time together, he may also be organizing a moment you’ll likely never forget.

Planning a Surprise Vacation/Weekend Break

Is he suddenly whisking you away for the weekend on a surprise trip? This is one of the telltale signs that something exciting is about to happen. More often than not, if it’s a surprise vacation – it may end with an engagement!

Talking About Marriage More

Is marriage being mentioned more than usual? Or have you just had your first serious chat about whether marriage is something you’re open to? While the proposal may not be in the imminent future – it’s definitely on his mind, and could be on its way soon.

Suggesting You Have a “Pamper” Day

Most men know that getting that perfect engagement ring shot is important. So he may tell you to go and “treat yourself”, “have a spa day”, “get your hair and nails done”. If he’s suggesting you do any of those things, you may have a shiny ring on your finger within the next few days.

Questions About the Future

If your future is becoming increasingly important to him, engagement may be on the cards. If he’s asking questions like:

Where do you see us in 5 years?
Do you want to have children in the future?
How did you like ____’s wedding?
Do you think we’ll spend the rest of our lives together?

then he clearly sees a future with you and hopes you feel the same way too. A proposal certainly won’t be far behind these questions – as long as you’re answering with positive responses, of course.

How A Man Acts Before He Proposes

Let’s be honest, it’s impossible to predict how every man acts before he proposes – because everyone is different. But usually, you will notice at least some change in your man’s behavior in the lead-up to the proposal. Some men may become more needy or anxious. Others may even become agitated and irritable.

Remember, this is a terrifying moment for him, as he plucks up the courage to ask you to spend the rest of his life with him. So if you notice his general attitude change, alongside any of the signs above – he may be about to propose, so you may want to cut him some slack!

Conclusion

While most men will try for the element of surprise, it’s likely you’ll have some kind of “gut feeling” when it’s about to happen. Whether that be a few weeks before, or a few hours before – you’ll just know. I didn’t think I would with my engagement and I was looking for signs everywhere, but it turned out my instinct was the best sign to follow – and I was correct!

If you’re now excited about proposals and want to look at the cutest engagement ideas, be sure to check out this post from The Knot on 66 Proposal Ideas. It’s super cute!

I hope this has helped to give an idea on how to tell if he’s going to propose. Do you have any other signs? Let me know in the comments below!

When Do You Have A Bachelor Party?: The Perfect Time

Today, we’re going be answering the question: when do you have a bachelor party? When, you announce your engagement, one of the first questions you’ll likely be asked by friends is “when’s the party?”, and it’s important to plan the party at the perfect time – but when is the sweet spot? We’ll be taking a look today! And other important questions like who pays for the party, and who typically receives an invite.

What Is A Bachelor Party?

If you’re reading this article, you likely already know what a bachelor party is, but if not, it’s a (small or large) gathering of friends and family members to celebrate when a man is about to get married. You may know a bachelor party as a stag do or a buck’s night – all depending on where you’re reading this from!

For a bachelor party, it’s usually only men that receive an invite. However, in more recent years, it’s become increasingly common for female friends to be invited – or even to have joint bachelor and bachelorette parties! It all depends on the couple and what they’re comfortable with.

What Is The Point Of A Bachelor Party?

You may be wondering what is the reasoning behind a bachelor party, and it often symbolizes two things. The first is to wave farewell to the end of a man’s single life, and the other is to celebrate the new journey he’s about to embark on with his new forever partner.

Who Pays For The Bachelor Party?

You may be wondering who pays for the bachelor party, and it’s a simple answer. Whoever is attending the party should pay for themselves. The financial costs do not fall down to whoever is planning the party. Usually, every attendee pays for themselves and etiquette says that all attendees pitch in so the groom pays nothing.

However, if the party is out of town, or requires a plane, the groom is usually expected to make some contribution, particularly if the destination is his choice.

As long as everyone attending is happy with their contribution, that’s the most important point.

When Is A Bachelor Party Held?

The reason you’re here – when should it take place? Before we highlight the perfect time, let’s have a look at when you shouldn’t have it.

Too Early

I know planning the bachelor party is exciting and you’ll likely want to start the experience as soon as possible, but it’s important not to have it too far in advance. The bachelor party is often a great way to really get pumped for the wedding, and if it happens 6 months prior to the wedding – it will lose its magic and the true meaning of a bachelor party will get lost.

Too Close to the Wedding

While it’s tempting to have the bachelor party as close to the wedding as possible, sometimes even the night before – this is not the best idea. In the lead-up to the wedding, there will likely be lots of last-minute planning and you’ll want that time to relax. You also don’t want to be nursing a hangover on one of the most special days of your life!

Another aspect to bear in mind is that attendees may not be able to get time off work that close to the wedding if they’re already taking time off to attend that – particularly if it’s a destination wedding.

Without Planning

You should aim to give the guests at least a month’s notice for the bachelor party; this should be longer if it’s a destination party. This is why it’s important to do some planning, no matter how loosely it is. You’ll want to make sure that everyone the groom wants at the party is able to attend, and that won’t be possible without at least, some planning.

The Perfect Time?

The perfect time is usually 1-3 months prior to the wedding. The most common time is around one month before. It’s close enough to the wedding that the excitement is really starting to build, but far enough away to recover from the party and then look forward to the wedding.

Who Plans The Bachelor Party?

If tradition is important to you, the best man should be the one to plan the party. Or if he needs some help, it falls down to the male friends and family members of the groom to help with any planning. However, in recent years, the groom may like to do the planning himself.

If the best man isn’t a particularly organized person, it may be best to assign some tasks to everyone within the bachelor party group to ensure everything is booked in enough time.

If you’re looking for some bachelor party ideas, you can find some great inspiration here.

Who’s Invited To The Bachelor Party?

It’s really down to the groom to decide how small or large the party is. It’s seen as etiquette to run the guest list by the groom before sending any invites, that way he can make the final call on who receives invites. While some grooms may love a huge party, others may not. You should always have the groom in the front of your mind when choosing who to invite.

Male family members and friends are the most important people to invite to the party. And it’s important to note that anyone who receives an invite to the party, should also receive an invite to the wedding.

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped to answer the question of when the best time is to have the party. And other important questions like who pays and who helps to plan the party. There really are no set rules on how to have the perfect party – you should be led by the groom and what he wants.

When did you have your bachelor party? Was it close to the wedding? Please feel free to leave any answers in the comments below.

How To Plan A Bachelor Party: A Step by Step Guide

Today, we’re going to be looking at how to plan a bachelor party, step by step. Every groom is different and has a different vision for their bachelor party. But where do you even begin? Who plans it, who should be invited, and what happens? Don’t worry, we’ll be covering it all in this article.

What Is A Bachelor Party?

You’re probably already more than aware of what a bachelor party is, but if you’re not familiar, a bachelor party is a party or small gathering for a man that is about to get married. You may be more familiar with it as a stag do or buck’s night, depending on where you are in the world. Traditionally, only men are invited to a bachelor party. However, in more recent years, that hasn’t been the case. And some couples even opt to have joint bachelor and bachelorette parties.

If you’re unsure when the bachelor party should be taking place, it’s often around one to three months prior to the wedding. Some grooms (and brides) would choose to have their party the night before their wedding, but that is definitely not something we recommend anymore. You do not want to be starting your wedding day nursing a hangover!

Who Plans The Bachelor Party?

If you’re following tradition throughout your wedding and wedding planning, the best usually plans the bachelor party; with or without help from your male friends and family. However, the groom may like to plan his own bachelor party, and that’s become much more frequent in recent years.

The most important thing is that there’s enough time given in advance to ensure that everyone can be in attendance, especially for people that are needing to travel or if it’s a destination bachelor party.

Who Is Invited To A Bachelor Party?

It should be up to the groom to decide how big (or small) they would like the bachelor party to be. Some grooms will want huge parties, while others will want a small gathering of friends and family. It’s important to take in what the groom will like, rather than planning something for yourself.

Close male friends and family members are often invited to the bachelor party. But be sure to present the guest list to the groom before you send out any invites – that way they can add or remove people as they see fit.

It’s also worth noting that if someone is being invited to a bachelor party, it’s expected for them to be invited to the wedding too. So be sure to follow the correct wedding etiquette when planning your bachelor party.

How To Throw A Bachelor Party

There are some tips to follow when throwing a bachelor party. There are no real guidelines as to what you should be doing, but these steps will make it easy as possible.

How-to: A Guide

Guest List. Before you make any plans, the guests are the most important thing. Once you have the seal of approval from the groom, you can start looking into venues, etc. that cater to that amount of people
Venue. Whether you’re off to your local bar, watching your favorite sport live, or having a game of poker indoors, you need to choose your venue as soon as possible.
Once you’ve chosen the venue, you can start to look at dates. Be sure to check with as many members of the party as possible that they can do that specific date. Starting a group chat on WhatsApp or Facebook would probably be the best idea to get everyone in one place.
If you need somewhere to stay the night, now’s the time to start looking around for hotels or apartment rentals. It’s usually best to get an apartment so you can all crash back there afterward and continue the party if you want to. Be sure to make any landlords aware that you’re having a bachelor party as some do not allow them in their rentals.
Whatever you’re choosing to do, arrange it. Are you going paintballing? Camping? Fishing? Make sure you have all the equipment you need. And be sure to tell all guests in attendance too! If you’re going out for a meal prior to the bar, make a reservation – particularly if there’s a lot of you. It may all seem like a lot of hassle, but you want the bachelor party to go as smoothly as possible.
RSVP. Before you make final payments or bookings, be sure to work out the final numbers. Some places may require a deposit from each person, so collect any payments you need.

What Happens At A Bachelor Party?

Bachelor parties have a bad reputation and usually, the first thing that comes to mind when you think of bachelor parties is: strippers. But they don’t deserve the bad rep they get! You can choose absolutely anything to happen at your bachelor party. It can be just a handful of people grabbing a takeout, a few beers, and playing poker if that’s what you’re into.

Or it could be hiring a party bus and doing a crawl of all the local bars. What happens is entirely down to the groom and the best man. The most important thing is that you’re celebrating the end of your single day and looking forward to the next chapter in your life.

If you’re looking for some ideas of where to have a bachelor party, Travel Triangle has a great article on the 27 Best Places.

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped you to become more familiar with how to plan a bachelor party. It really couldn’t be easier, as long as you plan ahead with plenty of time and get organized. If the best man isn’t the organized one in your group of friends, distribute tasks out among other people – I’m sure everyone will be more than happy to help, in any way they can.

Have you planned a bachelor party? Do you have any tips that didn’t make it onto our list? Please feel free to let me know in the comments below.

Funny Bachelor Party Email Invite: Ideas

Today, we’re going to be looking at ideas for a funny bachelor party email invite. If you’re reading this article, you’re likely a best man or in the process of planning a bachelor party for the soon-to-be groom. You’re likely looking for ideas to start off the bachelor party with a bang. And what better way than with epic bachelor party emails?

Let’s be honest, most men aren’t bothered about physical invites they can keep and treasure. So why not do them all online vis email? But how can you make them memorable and funny? Let’s take a closer look at some bachelor party invite text examples.

What Is A Bachelor Party?

A bachelor party (otherwise known as a stag do or buck’s night depending on where you’re from) is a party for a man who is about to be married. It often happens close to the wedding (but not too close!) and it’s usually only men that receive an invite. However, in more recent years, women can be invited and some couples even opt for a joint bachelor and bachelorette party!

If you’re wondering when to throw the bachelor party, it’s usually held around one to three months prior to the wedding. Despite contrary belief, it’s not usually held the night before the wedding anymore. This is because it usually makes for a groom that isn’t feeling great!

Who Plans The Bachelor Party?

If you’re looking to follow tradition, the best man (or woman) is usually the one to plan the bachelor party. His closest male friends and family will often help with ideas and it’s important to communicate with everyone you want in attendance early on so you can be sure they can attend. Nowadays, the groom may even want to plan his own bachelor party so that there are no surprises – and that’s completely okay too.

Bachelor Party Email Examples

Whatever you’re planning to do for the bachelor party, you’ll need invites. More commonly, they’re sent by email, so here are some ideas to get your inspiration going for your bachelor party emails.

Funny but Simple Verses

If you’re looking for something short and sweet, but with a bit of humor thrown in – these are perfect for you. Here are some of our ideas:

(Insert name here) is getting married!
Join us for his last night as a single man
(Insert date)
(Insert time)
(Add location)Time to say goodbye to freedom!
When we give him a send-off
we’ll be doing it in style
Soon he’ll be making
his way up the aisle
Let’s celebrate the fact
that he found his one
let’s all get together
and have some fun
(Insert, date, time, and location here)
Let’s have one last toast
for the guy we love most
so here’s your invite
to (NAME)’s last single night!
He wants to take a short at marriage,
so it’s time to have a par-tee!
In honor of the groom,
join us at (insert date, time, and location here)

Funny Invitation Wording

If you’re looking for some funny wording to add to the invitation to make everyone laugh. Here are a few ideas you may want to put into your bachelor party email invites.

Let’s get our hands dirty and party, at the bachelor party of (insert name here)
(Insert name here) will no longer be a bachelor, as he loses his freedom let’s celebrate his last night of singlehood at (insert time and location here)
Come and party like hell, and bid your singledom farewell at (insert time and location here)
It’s his last day as a single man, so let’s celebrate while we still can
His reign as a single warrior has come to a close. Before he weds his queen and becomes a king, let’s first celebrate the last of his single days at (insert time and location here)
Let yourself loose, and enjoy some booze! It’s (insert name here)’s last day of freedom!
He’s about to become a married man, so let’s get drunk together while we still can
The man. The myth. The legend. Join us for his final farewell (insert date, time, and location here)

Recently, there was an email that went viral that went down as the coolest bachelor party email ever. You can find the whole email here – it’s definitely a long one, so if you’re looking for short and sweet, this is not the one for you.

If you’re struggling with a template, there are a plethora of free ones online that you can customize and make your own. Failing that, there’s nothing wrong with just a plain ol’ email with all the information the attendees need – it really couldn’t be easier.

Bachelor Party E-Invites

If you’d rather send out an invite that’s already prepared and then message the seller to add your own wording to make it your own, that’s actually a great idea! And online marketplaces such as Etsy offer a range of options – even e-invites. So you don’t have to do any of the work.

On Etsy, you can find a huge selection of ideas that you may like to try. Including VIP passes, an animated video invite, and mugshot invites. You can find just a few of the ideas on offer here.

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped you to become more familiar with just a few ideas for a funny bachelor party email invite. However you decide to word your invites, the most important thing is that everyone that’s nearest and dearest to the groom is in attendance. Whether you’re planning something intimate and small, or a huge celebration – make sure you get those invites out with plenty of time.

If you’re unsure who to invite, ask the groom for a guest list. Everything else can be kept a surprise, but the groom should be the one who chooses who he wants to attend.

Do you have any funny bachelor party email invite tips? Please feel free to let me know in the comments below.

Where To Buy Ring Bearer Outfits: A Guide

Today, we’re going to be looking at where to buy ring bearer outfits and what the suitable ring bearer attire is for toddlers and children. Whether you’re the parent of the child looking to buy an outfit for an upcoming wedding, or you’re one-half of the happy couple looking for an outfit, you may be unsure which outfit to choose. The internet is swamped with ideas and it can be overwhelming – so we’ve got you covered. Whether you have a formal Summer wedding or a casual Spring wedding – we’re here to help.

What Is A Ring Bearer?

I may be getting ahead of myself – you may not even know what a ring bearer is! A ring bearer has a huge responsibility on your wedding day. They are the lucky person you’ve chosen to walk down the aisle during the ceremony. Usually, they’ll then present the rings to the best man, or keep watch of them until the happy couple needs them for the exchanging of rings.

How Old Is A Ring Bearer?

If you have flower girls within your ceremony, they’ll often be the same age as them. The average is around 3-8 years of age. Although that’s the traditional age, those are just guidelines and they’re not set in stone.

Your ring bearer can be of any age, although it’s usually a child. If it’s an older child, they’re often far more responsible so they’ll be less worried over the safety of the rings. If it’s a younger child, you can use fake rings for the ring bearer, and keep the real rings with the best man. And if it’s a toddler or smaller, it may be best to have someone accompany them down the aisle – we all know how little ones are prone to outbursts and tantrums!

Who Pays For The Outfit?

Usually, the parents of the child pay for the outfit. There will usually be discussions about the outfit, such as color schemes and general outfit ideas, then the parents will purchase it. However, if you want your ring bearer to wear a specific outfit of your choosing, it’s seen as polite to gift the outfit yourself. If the parent(s) are willing to pay for the outfit, you can gift an accessory for the wedding such as a bow tie.

Ring Bearer Attire

Usually, the attire of the ring bearer will match the attire of the rest of the bridal party/groomsmen. Your ring bearer should be easily identifiable as part of your special day. Whether that be wearing the same color as the bridal party, or the same tie as the groomsmen – the choice is yours! Let’s take a look at some ideas for outfits for toddlers and boys.

Ring Bearer Outfits for Toddlers

Usually, you’ll be wanting a toddler to look cute as a button. The most common choices to opt for a suspenders and bowtie combo with linen shorts, shirt, and waistcoat. If your wedding is a bit more casual, feel free to remove the waistcoat.

Bowtie and Suspenders

Often, suspenders will come separately to an outfit, which for toddlers may be quite frustrating and may distract them. However, this super cute linen 3 pieces from Etsy. If you buy the full set, it comes with suspender shorts, a vest, a bowtie, and a shirt. For the full set, it comes in at around £116. The set comes in over 50 different colors, so you’ll be sure to find a match suitable for your wedding.

Onesie/T-Shirt

If you’re having a more casual wedding, or you’ve chosen a baby as your ring bearer, you may want to choose a onesie or a t-shirt. There’s a great personalized Ring Security Shirt/Onesie for any toddler or baby in your life. It’s super cute and no one will doubt what their role is on your wedding day.

Ring Bearer Outfits for Boys

For a boy aged 3 or over, you can definitely still use the items above (they come stocked in older ages). However, you may like them to feel slightly more grown-up and part of the “groomsmen”. This is assuming your ring bearer is a boy, of course!

Formal Outfits

If you’re having a formal wedding, this Ring Bearer 4-Piece from White Bridal Boutique is a stunning option. It comes with trousers, a jacket, a vest, and a white long-sleeved shirt. Prices start at just over £100 for the entire set – which is definitely great value for money. The age range is from 9 months – 14 years, so you won’t be stuck for sizing issues. It’s only available in navy blue, charcoal grey, light grey, and black; but those colors will usually work well within any wedding.

Casual Outfits

If you’re looking for something a little more casual, Vestos has a good selection of informal (and formal) outfit choices for ring bearers. I particularly love this choice of a Boys Linen Suit. It has removable braces if you want to dress the outfit up or down. Prices start at around £130, but the outfits are definitely high quality and you can see that. You can choose any height from 56cm-134cm.

Conclusion

I hope this article has helped to identify where to buy ring bearer outfits. When I was looking for such outfits for my wedding, I found sites like Etsy and notonthehighstreet to be the best places to find unique outfit choices. However, you can also try your local bridal and groomsmen boutiques. They often have a range of outfits, which can usually be tailored. However, the price for these will often be significantly more due to the extra time required.

Did you have a ring bearer at your wedding? Where did you buy their outfit from? I would love to hear any ideas or tips you have for buying a ring bearer outfit. So please feel free to let me know of your experiences in the comments below. You may be helping out a future couple with their ring bearer outfit choice!